Burzynski Elder Law is urging families in Naples, Florida, and the surrounding Collier County region to use upcoming holiday gatherings as an opportunity to begin estate planning conversations that many households postpone until a health crisis or family emergency forces the issue. The firm, which focuses on estate planning and elder law, has outlined five conversation starters that families can introduce during natural pauses in holiday visits—questions practical enough to open a dialogue without disrupting the occasion.
Holiday gatherings bring together adult children, aging parents, and sometimes multiple generations under one roof, often for the first time in months. That setting makes them a realistic moment to check in on plans that affect everyone present. According to Burzynski Elder Law, most families do not avoid these conversations because they are unwilling—they avoid them because they are uncertain where to begin.
“Nobody wants to talk about incapacity or death over pumpkin pie,” said Jill Burzynski, elder law attorney at Burzynski Elder Law. “But a short, honest conversation now can spare a family court costs, delays and real conflict later.”
The firm recommends working through five topics, even informally, before the visit concludes. First, families should determine whether a current will or trust exists and where it is kept, as many people drafted documents decades ago or never completed them. Second, they should identify who steps in if someone cannot make decisions; a durable power of attorney and a healthcare surrogate designation are essential to avoid a court-supervised guardianship process. Third, documents should be reviewed after a move to Florida or a major life change, since out-of-state documents may not comply with Florida law. Fourth, families should discuss how long-term care will be paid for, given that nursing home and assisted living costs in Florida can reach several thousand dollars per month, and whether Medicaid planning or long-term care insurance is in place. Fifth, they should consider how assets will be protected for a surviving spouse and heirs, as wills and trusts can be structured to provide for a spouse while preserving remaining assets for children or other beneficiaries.
Burzynski Elder Law notes that Collier County estate planning inquiries frequently come from retirees who arrived in Naples with documents prepared in their home states and assumed those documents remained fully valid. While certain provisions may carry over, Florida has specific requirements around execution, witnessing, and particular trust structures that can affect whether a document functions as intended. The firm recommends a formal review any time a person establishes primary residence in Florida, regardless of how recently the original documents were prepared.
The firm also notes that a holiday estate planning conversation does not need to take the form of a formal meeting. Even a ten-minute exchange that confirms where documents are stored and who has been designated as a decision-maker gives families more information than they had before. For families seeking professional guidance, Burzynski Elder Law provides estate planning and Medicaid planning services in the Naples area.
